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And yes I do say submissive women who are revolted by the slightest submissive tendency in a man are the oppressors. All very well to say that you simply avoid the switches and seek out the dominant men.
People change and evolve and things aren't as cast in stone as you seem to think. I know because I was a bottom for at least 41 years (but never submissive) and suddenly realized I can enjoy switching at age 45, almost 5 years ago now.
So what does sound like oppression to me is this: there you are in your cozy marriage with Mr. Alpha Male and one day the poor soul has the audacity to think, gee, what would it be like to be spanked?
In a moment, he's tumbled from being the god you adore and worship to being the lowest of the low, the kind of man you wouldn't "let within kissing distance of you."
But maybe you have children with this pathetic wuss. Maybe you actually are in love with him and have a life together, apart from whether he can inflict serious pain on you if you don't obey. And maybe he wouldn't be too happy, knowing how you feel about the weaklings who switch, to have to tell you that now he is among their number.
So now he's going to have to throw a whole marriage over, hurt the children, ruin both of you financially, because he felt like getting his ass slapped?
Dee, if that's the priority and that is the decision you would come to in such a situation then not only are you the oppressor but your priorities about what is a worthwhile relationship are in pretty sad shape.
If indeed we care about marital harmony on this site then this is a serious can of worms we'd better address.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2004 Oct 22 - 21:59 | reply to this comment Mutually satisfying