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by Lauren on 2006 Sep 12 - 13:32 | reply to this comment Erotic interest As a man, I've found the quote "And her respect for him as a man, in her act of submission to him, virtually guarantees his continued erotic interest in her." to be so true it surprises me sometimes. My wife and I have been together for over 30 years, and in the last 8 years or so have increasingly applied TakenInHand? principles. The respect, love, committment and passion we enjoy has never been better. As has been said in many ways on this site, it can draw out the very best in masculinity and femininity.

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2006 Sep 13 - 01:24 | reply to this comment Consent Yes, Lauren, the protection is in trying to choose a man who is caring and protective and also wise.

I said "If they are inside your mind, making you comply in a sense the border between what you consent to and what they make you accept is not at all clear." That always interests me as an issue because I am not sure I really do consent. I know I have a legal right to leave someone at any point in the UK. I know i can withdraw a consent immediately to anything, sex a spanking or whatever but isn't it a bit like when you're with an abusive partner and cannot get away even though there are refuges and physical means of escape psychologically you can stay tied to that person for years unable to break free? In those cases yes you have a free consent to leave but you cannot exercise it because of the psychological position you have got yourself into? So in my case seeking a dominant man I am in a sense looking for someone whose control I would want so much I would seek to give him a power over me which could similarly make it hard for me to leave. I hope that is not a good analogy and that the better analogy is happily married couples who work through problems and don't easily leave each other because of ties/family etc rather than because of the mind control of one over the other.